Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Quick Update - Day 28

Ceomi is now 28 days post transplant. She is doing great. She has been out of the hospital for almost 2 weeks. She went to the clinic 3 times last week and will go twice this week. She has a goodly number of pills to swallow but her biggest work is regaining strength. Each day, she is doing a bit more. She has been given the go-ahead to go to venture out to lightly populated areas and has been exploring parks and stores in the area. Since her immune system is suppressed, she will need to be careful around crowds and kids for quite a while. She has the difficult task of breaking the habit of hugging and shaking hands until they allow her immune system to come back.

She'll have some blood tests on Friday that will measure how well engraftment has gone. So far, the doctors are very pleased. She has not developed any significant signs of Graft Vs. Host Disease (signs of rejection). Her blood tests have all looked good and are largely normal, indicating good engraftment. Her donor stem cells have gone to work and are producing new blood cells. The doctors will continue to monitor her anti-rejection drug levels in Atlanta but we're still praying that she'll be released to return to Greenville in mid-May. Some of the members of Embry Hills Church of Christ have been providing delicious meals. That has been a wonderful touch of home. We are so appreciative of all they have done.

The doctors are allowing Ceomi to visit Greenville for the weekend both this week and hopefully next. Addy will be turning 6 next week and Ceomi will be able to come home to celebrate. What a blessing.

Thank you so much for all of the help, prayers and cards. I know that Ceomi has felt very blessed to realize how many people are thinking of her and praying for her.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Day 18 Update

The days have both flown and crawled by. I did have mucositis but it was not as severe as it was in January. I stopped eating and drinking for about 8 days due to the pain from swallowing. For those of you who are wondering, no, the hunger doesn't go away. One of the odd benefits of the mouth & throat pain was that even though I couldn't swallow the pills for the neuropathy, the pain in my hands eased considerably. My feet also improved for a few days.

During this time, I was blessed with several visitors. From my family, my Aunt Elaine came and stayed for several days, as well as Laura. Ben comes every weekend and was able to come for a few extra days due to a Good Friday holiday. That same weekend, Matt Caudill, Lindsay Mast & Kristiana Burk came to visit. It was excellent to get to see them and visit. A friend of Ben's parents, Kathy and her new husband, came to visit and brought a basket of goodies from the Powers Ferry congregation. Gayle Hinds and other friends from our congregation in Taylors sent me several outfits for me to wear while healing. I am grateful to have so many thoughtful friends.

The doctors are very pleased by my blood counts. My white blood cell and neutrophil counts are in the normal range. There are several standards that must be met prior to discharge from the hospital (ability to swallow pills, eat/drink, normal blood counts, etc.). I'm happy to say that I reached those milestones on Saturday, April 11th. I have to remain in Atlanta for the next 4-6 weeks while my anti-rejection drugs are regulated and I regain some strength.

While my blood counts are now registering in the normal range, my immune system is supressed due to the drugs that keep my stem cells from rejecting me. I will not be allowed to clean house, change diapers, garden, etc. until I stop taking the anti-rejection drugs. In a year or so, I will actually have to be re-vaccinated so that I don't get the measles or anything else. I will also have to be careful in crowds and wear a mask for the time-being.

We are not currently at Hope Lodge because they are full and are staying in a kitchenette hotel near Emory until a space opens. Please send mail to our home address for now. We have a new round of helpers coming. Ben's sister Amy is staying with the girls this week while Laura is with me in Atlanta. My sister Cathy will be coming down next weekend for 2 weeks and she and Laura will take turns being with me and with the girls. In May, my Aunt Elaine will return and my friend Rachel will also be coming. Laura and I are already sad at the thought of her going home at the end of May.

Laura and the girls went down to Charleston to visit with Ben's parents over Addy's spring break since they couldn't see me. I'm looking forward to seeing the girls this weekend. It's been a long 3 weeks without them.

As always, thank you for your concerns for me and my family and for your prayers. We have been overwhelmed by the cards, gifts and outpouring of love and support from so many. God has surely blessed me with so many caring friends and family.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Mon & Tues, Days 5 & 6

Ceomi's white blood cell (WBC) counts have dropped. This is the expected result of the chemotherapy. It is clearing the way for the donor cells to establish themselves as Kings of the Hill. The outcome of this though is that Ceomi will feel somewhat terrible. Her neuropathy is continuing (mainly pain in her hands and feet) and may be slightly worse for a while since the treatment is pills and it is getting difficult for her to swallow them and then to keep them down.

As her WBC count is low, the lining of her esophagus and mouth is irritated and sores can develop (mucositis). There are few remedies for this other than time and rising WBC counts. They try to ease it with special mouthwashes and pain medication. It makes it very difficult for Ceomi to swallow liquids or eat.

These are the hard days, especially since the treatment in Chicago gave a preview of some of what is to come. The nurses refer to this time as being in the basement. I think that's a pretty apt description of how it feels BUT good days are coming very soon. This part is just the necessary evil to make it to the happy days in the sun that are coming right around the corner.

Speaking for Ceomi and her family, we realize just how many people are praying for her and cannot express the comfort that it brings to know how often our Father hears her name. Her mucositis during induction chemo. was quite severe. Please pray that she will not have such a strong bout of it this time.

Friday-Sunday, Days 2 - 4


Children under the age of 6 are not allowed on Ceomi's hospital floor and Ceomi is limited to when she's allowed to leave the floor. We thought that Ceomi wouldn't be able to se the girls for several weeks after their last visit on Sat, 3/21.

Dr. Langston gave Ceomi a wonderful belated 2nd birthday gift on Friday. She casually mentioned that the girls could visit over the weekend. Mom and I did a quick packing job and threw the girls in the car Friday after naps and took off for Atlanta. We must have had a slight head start on Ben because we got to Atlanta just before Ben.

Ceomi was able to visit with the girls several times between Saturday and Sunday. We had to visit in some semi-private rooms in the main lobby. Ceomi's endurance was impressive and she was able to spend several hours with them at a stretch, making occasional visits back to her room for medications. To say that both Mommy and girls were estatic would be quite the understatement. The girls did some puzzles and enjoyed playing nurse with Mommy. We didn't get a picture of it but if anyone ever needs an impromptu headband, consider a hospital mask. It's pretty cute, expecially on a 5 year old.

On Sunday, Ben and my mom took the girls back to Greenville while I am staying in Atlanta for the week.

Ceomi, Aunt Elaine & Laura



Ceomi and Aunt Elaine




Thursday, 3/26/09 - Day 1


Thursday was the day of arrivals. Ceomi's friend Caroline came to stay for a few days and my mom (Elaine) flew in to spend 2 weeks. I know that Ceomi and Caroline enjoyed being together. After 11 years of hearing stories about each other, Caroline and I finally met. We already knew faces and voices but it was great to finally meet in person. I think we may have to plan a girls' weekend sometime.

Elaine spent a few minutes visiting and then went to SC to stay with the girls for the next 10 days.